is it my fault that my husband got into sexual sin? So then each of us will give an account of himself to GodRomans 14:12 Upon the discovery of her husband’s hidden life, it’s common for a wife to wonder, “Is it my fault? Have I caused him to become involved in his secret sexual […]
Read MoreHow will biblical counseling help us? By wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory.”Proverbs 24:6 The purpose of godly counsel is to dig into the hearts of those who want to follow Christ, then help them understand and change those areas of their lives that are not […]
Read MoreWhere can i get help when there’s so much i need to know? The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.”Proverbs 1:7 There is so much for a wife to learn when sexual impurity is discovered. It’s hard to know how to react, what to say, or what […]
Read MoreI know we need counsel but where do we find it? Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future. Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.”Proverbs 19:20-21 Even when we are familiar with God’s Word, […]
Read MoreWhat if my husband has failures on his way to recovery? “I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.”Romans 7:15 Many husbands, when confronted with their sexual sins, will express regret and take steps to build a relationship with the […]
Read MoreWhat are some specific ways I can pray for my husband? …always pray and don’t lose heart.”Luke 18:1 Danielle regretted that she didn’t pray for her husband as often as she should have during his years of indulging in pornography. She wonders if he might have achieved freedom from his sinful ways sooner if she […]
Read MoreCan praying help change my attitude toward my husband? Whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”Colossians 3:17 It can be challenging for a wife to pray for her husband when she learns about his secret sins. As believers, […]
Read MoreHow can I effectively pray for my husband First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people.”1 Timothy 2:1 The Bible talks about prayer, often with some instruction regarding how to do it. Sandra prayed a lot about the pain she experienced regarding her husband’s sexual impurity. […]
Read MoreWhat are some of the steps to rebuilding trust? Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out, that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord.”Acts 3:19-20a Danielle admits that she still has difficulty fully trusting her husband. “The problem is that the things he says to me […]
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